The Hidden Cost of Dating the Wrong Women
Time lost. Momentum stalled. Opportunities missed.
We don’t talk about it enough, but modern dating has a cost — not just emotionally, but financially, mentally, and energetically. For high-performing men, that cost quietly compounds every month spent on the wrong matches, the wrong apps, the wrong kind of energy.
At BOND, we work with men who have everything except the right person to share it with. And when we ask them why they’re looking for something better, the answer is almost always the same: they’re tired of wasting time.
Time Is Money — Literally
If you’re earning $500k a year, your time is worth about $250 per hour.
Now let’s say you go on 2 dates per week. Here’s how that adds up:
1 hour texting and planning
1 hour getting ready
2–3 hours on the date
1 hour following up or evaluating afterward
That’s 5+ hours per date, or 480+ hours per year.
At your rate, that’s $120,000/year — just on time, not including the cost of dinners, drinks, or emotional energy.
And if those dates are mediocre at best or draining at worst? That’s not just wasted money — it’s wasted momentum.
The Emotional Tax
There’s a hidden layer that’s harder to quantify:
The mental clutter of texting five people at once
The frustration of being ghosted
The letdown of “this could be something” turning into nothing
Even if you don’t realize it, dating the wrong people pulls focus from your business, your workouts, your peace of mind.
It chips away at the sharpness you’ve worked so hard to cultivate.
The Opportunity Cost
Every month spent entertaining the wrong person is a month not spent building with the right one.
That’s a trip not taken.
A memory not made.
A partner you didn’t meet because your energy was tied up somewhere else.
High-value relationships don’t happen by accident — they happen by curation.
This Is Where BOND Comes In
We don’t waste your time.
At BOND, we only introduce you to exceptional women who already want to meet you — real, high-caliber women who are excited by who you are and what you’ve built.
No swiping. No second-guessing. No time wasted.
Just the right women, at the right time, presented to you by experts who get it.
