Time lost. Momentum stalled. Opportunities missed.

We don’t talk about it enough, but modern dating has a cost — not just emotionally, but financially, mentally, and energetically. For high-performing men, that cost quietly compounds every month spent on the wrong matches, the wrong apps, the wrong kind of energy.

At BOND, we work with men who have everything except the right person to share it with. And when we ask them why they’re looking for something better, the answer is almost always the same: they’re tired of wasting time.

The phrase "eyes are the windows to the soul" reflects an ancient belief (popularized by Plato, the Bible, and even Shakespeare) that eyes reveal a person's inner emotions and character.  Many self-help and dating tips suggest that gazing deeply into your date's eyes is the secret to building a connection.  However, there is research that shows this may not be entirely true.

Dating apps have become a popular tool of modern dating but they come with hidden costs - taxing our time, wallets and emotional health.  Matchmaking can address these issues and, in many instances, may be a more cost effective way to meet someone than using a free app.

The holidays are a time of joy, celebration, and connection. For many, it's also a season of introspection and deepened relationships, which can make dating during this time feel both magical and overwhelming. Whether you’re starting something new or navigating a developing relationship, here’s how to enjoy the dating scene during the holiday season while avoiding common pitfalls.